How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 00:56
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
What thing happened to you as a child that you haven’t let go of to this day?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
What are some common examples of condescending behavior?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Does not procrastinate.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Has Messi scored against the Buffon?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Procrastinates a lot.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Why do Muslims not get HIV/AIDS in spite of having 4 wives and multiple relationships?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
How do great movie moments influence how people handle real-life moral dilemmas?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Why do I feel so lazy every time I get into my room?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
Which is the correct Tamil New Year, Thai-1 or Chithirai-1?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Why do Indian parents force their kids to do stuff?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Ask yourself:
Why do men like low maintenance women?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What should I do if I love a girl and she apparently doesn't love me?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
That's it for today.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What I need from you?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Do not set goals—set systems.